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异地恋好处多多

My first long-distance relationship didn’t work out, but I am sure I would do it again.I’ll admit I used to be that person who looked at long-distance couples absolutely dumbfounded.“Why do that to yourself? You barely know each other, yet you’re jumping into a pretty serious commitment?”
我第一次异地恋没有结果,但我确定我愿意再来一次异地恋。我承认我过去看到异地恋的情侣绝对会很震惊。“为什么要那样对待自己?你们都不怎么了解对方,就急于把自己认真地托付给对方?”
But to my own surprise, I found a couple of things about long-distance dating that made it worth the trouble for the beginning of any relationship.
但令我自己惊讶的是,我发现了有几点原因使得异地恋虽然初期会遇到一些麻烦,但仍值得拥有。
Long distance forces you to answer two questions that could save you a lot of time:
想要异地恋不得不先回答两个问题,这样能节省很多时间:东营翻译公司推荐阅读

1. Do you trust him or her?
你信任TA吗?

2. Do you trust yourself?
你信任你自己吗?
It’s really easy to ignore these questions when your boyfriend or girlfriend is with you all the time because the lack of space between you two doesn’t allow you to test your trust.
男女朋友总是腻在一起,真的很容易忽略掉这些问题,因为你们之间没有距离来测验你们之间的信任。
For most couples, you don’t bother dealing with that question until much later on.
对大多数情侣而言,要过很久才会遇到处理这种问题的麻烦。
But once you’re deeper into a relationship, coping with the fact your gut tells you not to trust him or her (or yourself) is much more difficult to do when you’re already so emotionally invested.
但是一旦你们关系深入了,直觉告诉你不要相信TA或你自己时,因为投入的感情多了,所以处理起来就更困难。
When you start off your relationship with long distance, you’re forced to deal with the issue of trust from the very beginning.
当你开启一段异地恋时,你从一开始就被迫去处理信任的问题。东营翻译公司推荐阅读
You’re either going to form a strong bond of trust that will make you two feel closer than the distance puts you apart, or you’ll realize you need to end things.
你们要么建立一种强烈的信任感,使你们感觉虽然相隔千里,但心离得很近;要么就结束这段感情。
And, as much as the truth is an absolute blow sometimes, it’s better to find out and get out early than having the ugly truth hit you over the head down the road.
而且,有时现实绝对是一种打击,及早发现问题,尽快抽身,要好过糟糕的现实将来给你当头一棒。

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